I do indeed ask myself that.
I still feel a loyalty after many years here and at rpoints. And I enjoy (some of) the debate with other posters. But I also ask myself whether I should desert a sinking ship or try to save it.
Two years ago, I started a thread saying that IM was slowly dying. The rebuttal was that it has plateaued not that is IM dying. Since then TCB and Q have continued to grow while new sign ups here have dwindled and active members continue to drift away.
Mr Boro Boy has been vigorous in suggesting improvements needed and activity to generate more interest - and others have added their contributions. But these many suggestions have led to little visible change. Yes, I know resources are limited, yes, I know that some of the site infrastructure needs fixing, etc, etc. But the excuses are wearing thin, while IM becomes even more irrelevant.
Perhaps others disagree that the ship is sinking. If so, then let them make their case.